"A couple months later at a meeting I attended during my time in Delray Beach, I heard a speaker of some renown (a pop singer popular in the late 50’s), who had over 40 years of sobriety, talk about intimacy. He said something I had not heard before — intimacy means “into me see.” It occurred to me that true intimacy is letting people see into me, but that before I could do that, I had to into me see. " excerpt from https://medium.com/know-thyself-heal-thyself/self-portrait-in-essay-form-circa-12-2013-7bdac6f1510e