A couple of weeks ago I was having a debate/fight with a dear friend of 30 years about Israel. My friend likes to toss around labels of genocide and apartheid and gets frustrated that I don't buy into them. I see aspects but do not accept the labels as appropriate. I said something to the effect of for someone who identifies as non-binary you seem to be a very binary thinker. She (they) said how dare you bring my sexuality into this (which I wasn't). I apologized the next day but it will be a while before we talk again. While I have you, I tagged you here last week. https://medium.com/illumination-curated/an-ambivalent-essay-no-a-multivalent-essay-on-the-israel-hamas-conflict-11d067aaff12