and there are many spectrums besides the homo/hetero spectrum. Are you familiar with the terms demisexual and sapiosexual, for example? A demisexual is attracted to connection or needs connection before attraction can form. A sapiosexual is attracted to intelliegence. Each of these can be another layer within the hetero/homo spectrum. There are many other terms and spectrums discussed in this webpost https://www.choosingtherapy.com/sexuality-spectrum/