As you eloquently write, all people of any gender or non-binary possess aspects of these divine energies. It's a shame that these energies are identified/labeled by gender as I feel it confuses the issue.

I wrote a short piece about this very soon after starting to write on Medium nearly 2 years ago. https://medium.com/new-earth-consciousness/my-reaction-to-two-recent-pieces-on-the-concepts-of-divine-feminine-and-divine-masculine-1f9b899faa17 . I concluded "The more likely construct, and men would probably chest-bump over it, is that divine feminine somehow became the term for soul while divine masculine became the term for human; and the not so nice story is that for millenia souls have been losing the battle, which doesn’t surprise me as most would find life in Heaven boring, and that may be why so many souls agree to endure ever more pain life cycle after life cycle."