Detaching with love is something far too many people fail to understand honors love of self. Far too many people allow themselves to be manipulated and then lose themselves to love of another who doesn't love them back.

Well done, Toni, with the poem and with your life, and guiding others.

Detaching with love applies across many aspects of life and relationships, not just romance. I wrote an essay about this if you or your readers are interested. https://medium.com/@marcus17043/when-should-one-detach-with-love-f63180af8c8d