Diana C has a fabulous 50 day challenge of prompts for self reflection. One question is "How can you relieve yourself of the burden of trying to problem solve your way into a pain free existence?" Part of my response was "One lifts the burden of figuring out how to live a pain-free existence when one realizes that we did not incarnate for an easy life and that societies’ notions of fairness do not hold water against the true purpose for our physical existence. Struggles, no matter how insidious, do not mean God does not love with more passion and compassion than we can imagine, and they present a path to Light." https://medium.com/know-thyself-heal-thyself/kobayashi-maru-f1ebc187e6fe