Good questions indeed presented very poetically, and thus as the responses show, open to many interpretations. I approached some of these questions in a short essay a couple of years ago in https://medium.com/channspirations/who-decides-what-is-fair-c252486bcad8 in which I say in part, "The notion of life being fair or not being fair is a human-constructed binary that should disappear from the lexicon along with other contra-spiritual binaries that create irrelevant points of comparison." If you are interested in my longer discussion of issues of fairnes, https://medium.com/illumination-curated/on-the-matters-of-life-is-fair-free-will-divine-intervention-personal-responsibility-for-3a94e696510