Hi Tessa. Perhaps it's how or why the person believes? The zealots are certainly unhealthy. The people who place dogma over spirituality are likely to be let down. Please read https://medium.com/illumination/why-is-it-so-easy-for-people-to-believe-the-most-obvious-lies-yet-require-proof-of-god-339a2a07cc4f. You and I often have common ground and certainly have mutual respect.