I also think it's important that people accept that grief may never disappear. Even when we reach the other side, grief will return. You might have seen me say before, the pain pockets of grief have infinite depth, that these chasms can cause tears at a moment's notice no matter how much time has elapsed, yet as the pockets drain, their infinite depth leaves room for infinite amounts of Light to enter our lives.
I grieved all over again last week and wrote this piece: https://medium.com/write-under-the-moon/how-i-helped-my-heaven-mate-crossover-to-the-other-side-e4d91b448e0b