I am reminded of K. Pearson Bradley's Do This to Stop Gossip, Socrates’s Advice for More Harmonious Relationships, which I cited in my https://marcus17043.medium.com/why-do-good-people-fear-their-own-shadow-8e5a921ac775, subtitled Lack of self-awareness and misguided perceptions of ownership of the comments section block spiritual growth, which included:

"I then had to decide whether this article would constitute gossip. Pearson’s article educates us with wisdom from Socrates's three-sieves test, which she boils down to these questions:

1. Is it true (absolutely and certainly, without a doubt)?

2. Is it good (i.e., peaceful, loving, empathetic, uplifting)?

3. Is it useful (i.e., helpful, beneficial)?"