I came back because I just remembered a passage I wrote almost three years ago that's on point:

"Sitara had said to Ane that God signs off on the scripts to try and make sure that a soul[/person] does not take on more than it can handle, but sometimes the soul [or person] does get overwhelmed. I know this sometimes leads to suicide attempts. I also know sometimes it leads to a soul being granted an early exit if a walk-in can be arranged.

I texted Ane after the call:

'You asked in the conversation if that means God can be wrong. There is no right or wrong. God cannot predict the future. That would eliminate free will from the equation. If God allows a script that ends up being too much for the soul [or person], that doesn’t mean God was wrong — it simply means the soul didn’t rise to the potential that God saw as possible.'”

If I were writing that today, I might reword the last part. I'm not liking the phrase "rise to the potential."

If you or anyone else wants to read that full 5-minute piece, https://medium.com/illumination/god-loves-us-unconditionally-45c54c297e52 subtitled "and is the spiritually wisest entity I know but not omnisicent"