I can't meditate and I'm not miserable. I'm quite content/happy. Moreover, when I feared that my inability to meditate would interfere with my spiritual growth, my guides told me in a channeled session with my Medium not to fret. Meditation does not suit my active mind. Walks in nature on the other hand work for me like meditation does for others. My thoughts coalesce into ideas/realizations/epiphanies. If you are sensing energy that speaks of lack of calmness, yes, you're story of one size fits all thoughts about meditation angers me.