I could not agree more. In my guest prompt in KTHT in July, on top of the simple question of are we humans seeking spirit or spirit seeking human experiences, I added: "My highest power has pointed out to me that there would be times when the needs of my soul and the needs of my human/animus would conflict. I am choosing the terms animus and human over the term ego because of the tendency among people on a spiritual journey not to think in terms of dualities, fall into the binary/label trap, and deride the ego and thus aver that the soul is always correct. What do you think?"
Here in the pages of Mystic Minds I wrote back in March: "I had a very hard time integrating the concept of human and soul....Integration is supposed to be a state of seamless interdependence. Greg cannot nor should lose himself to us. We should exist in harmonious symbiosis, we should each be aware of the other and of our separate completeness; the only thought that existed of this before we just wrote it was one word–interdependence.... I am sick and tired of this nonsense about “ego death.” Greg’s experiences are very much imprinted upon the soul of Marcus. We are the same being. The ego does not die. It evolves. I evolve. I integrate and align." https://medium.com/mystic-minds/spiritual-awakening-followed-by-integration-and-alignment-9d4595be7dc6