I have a lot of personal experience with narcissists of the overt and the covert variety in my family, and I think you are more closely describing the overt here. I worked with an uncle and a cousin who were the former. After my awakening, I realized my father is the archetype for the covert variety. https://medium.com/know-thyself-heal-thyself/why-i-canceled-my-father-bcb60831ee35