I have a wonderful relationship since 2010 with a psychic. Ironically I met her through a crazy borderline personality girlfriend who used her for the unhealthy reasons you discuss. I never ask Anne to predict the future, partially because I know she'd be guessing because there is little point in the universe providing her with that info and free will still affects most outcomes. I use her solely to channel souls for me for advice, whether departed loved ones or my spirit guides and the relationship and this process has been life saving, https://byrslf.co/maybe-i-will-save-one-life-or-many-b6d28ac8b807, which I say more as a phrase than literal as one thing that I have learned is that date of death is predetermined. Just the date. Not the how. That is usually very much the product of free will. And I wish everyone believed that as it would eliminate suicide attempts. https://medium.com/know-thyself-heal-thyself/matters-of-life-and-death-bc9752a36bff