I have written similar thoughts:

"love is a state of being — many feel one cannot fall out of true love — here’s the fallacy in that — many correctly believe that we are constantly changing — so, since love is a state of being, it is inconsistent to insist that one cannot fall out of true love. That one falls out of love does not mean the love was never true. That all describes my thoughts about love between humans."

That's from the description of one of my tanka on love contained in this collection https://medium.com/know-thyself-heal-thyself/unconditional-love-3481bffe22f4