I just learned to know it when I see it, and it took me too long to spot those vampires but I eventually learned. The hardest was the covert narc dad. Took me over 50 years and almost no one else believes me.

Then the universe kept sending me more and more subtle versions and borderlines to boot

Obviously (I think) empathy was a typo for empath. Damn autocorrect, it almost happened again.

I've noticed you working through box links tonight. Means a lot to me. Thank you