I read a great essay the other day. It's clearly been boosted so perhaps you and many of your readers already have too. https://medium.com/bouncin-and-behavin-blogs/my-gay-daughter-told-me-to-be-more-accepting-9b7e5c977865 subtitle "Of right wing conservative Christian people." The father writes "She has more skin in the game, as a gay young woman. As much as it boils my blood to hear people talk negatively about the LGBTQ community, I know that bigotry affects her negatively far more than it will ever affect me. I need to be open to her wisdom, even though she’s all of 17 years old."