I think you will relate to the conversation between Tony and Daphne from the series After Life that I speak of here, https://medium.com/promptly-written/spiritual-prompts-5-29-thru-6-4-2f65ac86dfcf , and how I relate it to my thoughts on the topic being discussed in your comment. The part of my essay I refer to starts several minutes into it, in the subsection with the heading “Good things happen to bad people. Bad things happen to good people. It’s not always someone’s fault.”