I wrote a tanka a couple of years ago, title and subtitle, Dear Connie Lingus, Tanka of a path to pleasure. https://medium.com/p/512a26bddf97

"French kissing nerves rich

Listen for responsiveness

She holds my head’s place

Contractions grasp my finger(s)

Ecstatic expansion nears"

It was in response to a spiritual pub's (KTHT) owner's poetry prompt "a path of loving expansion." I had to house it in Bazaar of the Bizarre because after she accepted my tanka a few days earlier in response to these prompts, "Day 19: Love is multifaceted

Day 20: Doing what makes the heart sing" she was inundated with erotica so she instituted a hard no policy. I'm not going to quote that tanka here as it contains the F-ing word and people should choose whether or not they want to click in https://medium.com/know-thyself-heal-thyself/convergence-2cebd3d0a7f9 subtitled "Tanka of where hard sex meets making love."

Libby Shively MacAvoy wrote a detailed instruction manual similar to yours a couple of summers ago that discusses 11 ways in which women can climax: https://medium.com/living-out-loud/an-orgasm-a-day-will-keep-the-doctor-away-4a5c0f86107d