Identifying beyond the specific facts--much of what you wrote resonates with me and has me crying for and about Lindsey. I left this poem on her grave on the deathiversay
Thirty-six long stems
For each too short span of years
Roses evoke you
Soft beautiful elegant
Prick ye who thorns memory
The last line written to those who are angry at her after they discovered her secret life--the life that I knew about and loved her nonetheless with all my heart and soul
https://medium.com/know-thyself-heal-thyself/a-defiant-lovestory-89d431ba5bf9
Your piece is also timely and relevant to my suicide piece and my love for my friend despite the secret reveals that were the proximate but not total cause of his decision to take his own life