I'm big on interdependent. And on friendship. In my first ever piece of self expository writing, a self portrait in essay form that I wrote 10 years ago almost to the day, and posted to Medium when I joined 3 years ago, https://medium.com/know-thyself-heal-thyself/self-portrait-in-essay-form-circa-12-2013-7bdac6f1510e, I said:

"I am a romantic. I believe in the existence of idealized love. I want it. I will find it. I want to grow old with my best friend, I want to walk down the streets of forever arm in arm. I want to sit on a park bench reading a book, her head in my lap reading her book as I stroke her hair. More important than sharing our highpoints, I want to share the mundane, and each other’s pain. That to me is true unconditional love."