I'm male this life, and have been female in 2 of the 5 of my 17,042 past lives for which I know some facts of. The pronoun thing is a bit annoying. I get that it is a reaction to society's construction and assignment of certain traits to be masculine and feminine, but the fact is that biologically there is male and female, so rather than confuse us all with neutral pronouns, can't we just agree that they refer to biologically male and female and nothing more?