I'm not sure but it certainly could be. Check out other quotes from it on Goodreads. I highly recommend the book. It was the first yellow brick on my path to Oz. https://medium.com/channspirations/i-do-not-regret-going-to-rehab-in-2012-though-i-started-to-see-years-ago-why-a-crazy-gf-of-mine-ae079ff2f900. just book one. No need for any of his many other books. Melanie quoted him as well in her prompsponsive piece today. Here is another from the book that stuck with me. "The purpose of a relationship is not to have another who might complete you; but to have another with whom you might share your completeness.”