In 2013 during the first leg of what I then did not realize was my spiritual journey, I wrote "More important than sharing our highpoints, I want to share the mundane, and each other’s pain. That to me is true unconditional love." This 17-minute self portrait circa 2013 describes that leg in detail. https://medium.com/know-thyself-heal-thyself/self-portrait-in-essay-form-circa-12-2013-7bdac6f1510e. My present views on love and unconditional love are set forth in 5 tanka in this story. https://medium.com/know-thyself-heal-thyself/unconditional-love-3481bffe22f4 Here's one of the 5:

Unconditional

love twixt humans forever?

Perhaps, perhaps not.

Love is a state of being.

Beings constantly in flux.