It's not about getting it right, my friend. That human philosophical/ethical/moral/religious construct is hard to release, and this one is hard for many to grasp onto--it's only about the experience. No right. No wrong. We don't come back to get it right or because we got it wrong. We come back and will contract for same experiences until we understand them, and then if we choose to come back again (and again), we come back to experience more difficult and confusing experiences.