It's not supposed to be. "The notion of life being fair or not being fair is a human-constructed binary that should disappear from the lexicon along with other contra-spiritual binaries that create irrelevant points of comparison." from my https://medium.com/channspirations/who-decides-what-is-fair-c252486bcad8

https://medium.com/illumination-curated/on-the-matters-of-life-is-fair-free-will-divine-intervention-personal-responsibility-for-3a94e696510