I've noticed that when anyone comes across someone who has experienced more loss than they have, they picture it as unbearable. I get that reaction from people reading when I share about my losses, and I don't get it, it's just a part of me, and then I read Scott's losses, and wow, that feels like a lot. And you've had more than plenty too. Losses take many forms. I'm glad you too found each other, and acted upon it. Used your free will to create a wonderful destiny, warts and all.