Jules, you write too well to step away from writing here entirely. Please consider balance rather than stepping away, and just don't give a shit about stats and know that whether you can see it or not in the form of someone's engagement, your words have reached and helped someone. If you care about stats, write about sex to see tangible results. I don't mean erotica necessarily. Libby's piece on an orgasm a day keeps the doctor away really took off.