Life is neither fair nor not fair=live life on life's terms=play the cards I am dealt=it is what it is=go with the flow=acceptance is the answer

https://medium.com/channspirations/who-decides-what-is-fair-c252486bcad8

https://medium.com/technical-excellence/waxing-tanka-about-home-5344f8581e1a

https://medium.com/illumination/the-flow-b43ba5f33b7a