LOL I want some of the psylocybin you just ate. Kidding. I love you.
In all seriousness, I would not be surprised if you have run into people with borderline personalities. Black and white thinkers--you are for them or against them--you are lionized or demonized by them. That is black and white, binary thinking. No gray. No nuance. My essay on the human spirit duality which I thought you read but maybe you havent or maybe you did but without tje context of of this conversation, may clarify what I mean about duality. https://medium.com/know-thyself-heal-thyself/the-human-spirit-duality-e456c0729e99 If you want to go deep down the rabbit hole of competing spiritual philosophies, I recall this essay by Alan Lew. If you read it and comment, send him my regards. https://medium.com/new-earth-consciousness/where-do-you-fall-on-the-duality-nonduality-spectrum-34069469d2a0