may have simply fallen asleep at the wheel--it's happened to me a few times and my guardian angels intervened, like when in your and your husband's accident you miraculously found your way to the other side of the car
PS: Yesterday, I featured one of your stories in my https://marcus17043.medium.com/many-writers-gripe-about-the-distribution-algorithm-has-it-ever-occurred-to-you-how-frustrating-6f24c49f5bff