Much the same. I answered the same prompt almost 2 years ago in this short form, https://medium.com/p/a3aa1c31ee6b , which partially drew from this email that I had sent my kids a few months before, who were 17 and almost 15 at the time https://medium.com/illuminations-mirror/life-lessons-and-parents-roles-an-actual-email-to-my-15-year-old-son-and-17-year-old-daughter-48c8ef4f4ccf