My channeler Ane is great. I owe so much to her. She was simply stating her opinion as a woman that a human woman does not exist who will be able to handle my ongoing relationship with Sitara. From my experience she may be right. I thought I had met one who could handle it--she said she could--and then she freaked out when I posted a poem on Lindsey's birthday with a picture of us kissing and later expressed that despite what she thought, she can't handle being in a relationship with a man that has another soul waiting for him in heaven. I agree with what you are saying about free will but I do not believe I can will a relationship into happening as I can't control another's thoughts and beliefs. It takes two to tango and if I don't meet a woman who can dance to this tune, I am saying I am absolutely ok with that.