Please do. When I saw thru my human father this spring and I was seething, and Rama asked me whom I was mad at, I knew from his question the answer could not be my dad because then the question didnt need to be asked, it was pretty easy to simultaneously rule out my mom and realize it was me--not young me--but adult me for continuing to be fooled by him for so many years, and once I cut the cord fom that negative energy I could wash away the burdens that were masking my burdens--i had an interesting talk with Donna-Reed guide two weeks ago--reconciling is a human construct that has nothing to do with Divine forgiveness--if the other person doesn't change then reconciling is self-mutilation