Thank you. That is the essence of acceptance. We don't ever have to accept permanence of unacceptable. Just in the moment and moment by moment. "Perhaps, moment by moment everything is as it is supposed to be because there is no other way for it to be because everything that caused the present moment is in the past and there is nothing I can do to change the past so therefore the only possibility for the present moment is for it to be just the way it is and since there are no other options, that is in some way the perfect occurrence." That's an excerpt from my piece on acceptance: https://medium.com/promptly-written/spiritual-prompts-for-the-week-of-june-12th-18th-86877724cd6b