That is a great way of explaining the power of ACCEPTANCE IS THE ANSWER which are the first 4 words of the incredibly powerful and life-lesson-rich 109 words from page 417 of the bible of the much-maligned-by-me 12-stepprogramverse. I do a deep dive into those 109 words in https://medium.com/technical-excellence/waxing-tanka-about-home-5344f8581e1a
which I summed up recently as:
Life is neither fair nor not fair=live life on life's terms=play the cards I am dealt=it is what it is=go with the flow=acceptance is the answer
https://medium.com/channspirations/who-decides-what-is-fair-c252486bcad