That is probably not incorrect but it's also not the feelings I speak about inspired by White Feathers essay. You're speaking the language of psychology as I believe many others have in the comments to both of these pieces, particularly the first one. I'm speaking about intution.

See particularly back to the second stanza of the poem.

See Frank's recent comment, he gets it from both sides and the confusion caused by our imprecise language--too many words with multiple definitions. Have you ever looked up "love" in a comprehensive dictionary, for example. In mine I think I counted 23 definitions.