That's the point I made when I contrarian responded to a prompt to imagine what life would be like if I had do overs. Imagine Your Future Without Changing Anything About Your Past https://medium.com/hope-healing-and-humour/imagine-your-future-without-changing-anything-about-your-past-634bb61e7045, which included thoughts such as " I cannot change the past. I can change how I feel about, think about, and react to the past. That’s one way to rectify mistakes and shape my future."