The tension between freedom/individualism and being a member of society is well-covered by many philosophers and is easily reconciled. I particularly like Ortega's thoughts on the matter. I Meet Kierkegaard, Nietzsche, Ortega, and Archangels in a Bar https://medium.com/@marcus17043/i-meet-kierkegaard-nietzsche-ortega-and-archangels-in-a-bar-b56233dae748