There is no side as you call it Patrick, and the only issue I have with you is that you don't realize that you are an insensitive jerk in that your debate says, "fuck you and your relationship with your dearly departed soulmate." Now there is nothing you can do to affect my relationship with Sitara but you should at least take a step back and understand that is the logical conclusion of you winning this unwinnable debate that should be the sharing of ideas and not a fucking contest and if you respond to this post at all it should be with nothing more than an apology.
This post of mine reminds me of our dear mutual friend Anthi’s piece the other day:
He wants to be the winner. To him, that’s the purpose.
To me, the purpose is for all three of us to win;
me, him, and the topic we discuss.
Because otherwise, none of us gets widened up.
And we all lose.
Hmmm, perhaps you are the subject of her poem, as your response would indicate you recognized:
But you always win, Anthi, especially when you smile, I can only imagine, of course, but I sense that I’m right on this one.
Let's see Patrick if you can resist having the last word this time.
I look forward to meeting up in heaven and having a good laugh over this Patrick. One thing we have in common is the flip side of the same coin--you envy me and I feel bad for you.
