There's a lot in here that resonates and some that does not fit with my understanding of things, for example, sometimes immoral behavior occurs because a soul incarnated to experience it, either as a victim or a perp.
Anyway, I share feelings about much of what you say about religion, and I do not identify as a member of any, yet I do feel the baby shouldn't be tossed out with the bathwater.
I discuss this and more in my recent Let’s Talk about Atheists and Firm Believers in the God of Abraham https://medium.com/illumination-curated/lets-talk-about-atheists-and-bible-beating-believers-in-the-god-of-abraham-fe139f4833f3, subtitled "Although their beliefs stand in stark opposition, each exhibits behaviors akin to the other, including shortfalls in critical thinking"