These matters may not involve religion but they are impacting your engagement with it and they do seem to involve spirituality as I and others define that term. See my https://medium.com/illumination/spirituality-redefined-ff45cb53eaf2 in which I wrote

"When I use the term spiritual, I use it in a manner that transcends the binary of theism versus atheism. One can act entirely spiritual with or without a belief in “god” however one understands that term. Spirituality only requires love, empathy, compassion, humility, honesty and courage.

As I define spirituality, there is a flip side to the coin and all those positive feelings— accountability, both personally and holding others accountable for their words and deeds."