This is so true Rebecca and I witnessed it first hand in our editors' channel today when discussing a virulently anti-semitic story and one good soul said to the effect well if he removed the hate he makes some good points--needless to say myself and a few others calmly lost our shit, and then when our owner suggested I leave the note rejecting the story and i said ok but I will also tell him that if he self publishes I'm reporting him and our owner suggested I be more diplomatic, I not so calmly told our owner no fucking way--that I am not uncomfortable--that he is--hence, another instance of cognitive dissonance uncovered.