This piece is oh so Desiree. I just dropped a link to it in a comment to her https://medium.com/my-unpopular-opinion/beauty-is-perfectionism-gone-sour-lets-be-magically-ugly-together-90359f96cd61 and again just now here

https://medium.com/change-your-mind/the-intuitive-art-of-speeding-up-and-slowing-down-quickly-30c92b56ac5c