Very honestly and tastefully told (the pun not intended). I could feel your and your ex-wife's emotions Terry. People need to learn to talk this way and it's too bad that you and your wife couldn't at the time, but those life-lessons were learned after, as you said. It also shows that 3-ways should not happen spontaneously. The ground rules were not set and assumptions were made and we all know how assumptions turn out. Thank you for sharing this story. I went public yesterday with a story that you and your readers may find interesting about another kind of non-conforming love story. https://medium.com/know-thyself-heal-thyself/a-defiant-lovestory-89d431ba5bf9