While I'm seducing Sandy with my brain and good looks but at that age, no charisma. That's not the word I'm going for, no mojo. I wouldn't have gotten Sandy. Olivia wouldn't have thought about getting physical with me. Her loss.

"One result of my longing for connection was that at age 28 I married my first girlfriend, just four years or so after losing my virginity, which only happened because my best friend and his girlfriend set me up on a date with a nice girl who liked getting laid. Now let me give some visual context to this improbable scenario of me being a 24-year-old virgin:"

That's from my https://medium.com/about-me-stories/my-journey-spiritual-and-otherwise-9d5f6aca18ee, but here's the picture if you don't want to click into that About Me story: https://images.app.goo.gl/jN7BmmckLdP17arj6

Thunder Road is of course also a great Springsteen song