wow. I feel that word will oft convey my reactions to you. "In Del Ray, I was assigned “home work” that at the time seemed inapt. For that time, it was, but ontologically, it is useful. The most interesting was this assignment: “describe a healthy romantic relationship.” I wrote that each partner should maintain their sense of self; no one should lose who they are to the relationship; it should be a partnership wherein each person maintains their autonomy; kind of like a treaty between, for example, the United States and Canada — contributions and rules are agreed to but each country maintains its sovereignty. This described an interdependent relationship. It is the opposite of codependent [all from memory!!]; and it precisely describes the Soul Partnership Contracts. (not a tangent afterall)" from my https://medium.com/know-thyself-heal-thyself/self-portrait-2020-809cb17aa7c9