Yeah, I always liked what one adult used to say to me when I was in my late 20s (funny how I don't see that age as adult), "May thus be the worst day of your life." When 20 years later I said that to a woman about something her son was experiencing, she got very angry with me, saying that attitude was dismissive of her son's feelings. 🤦 No, it's not. It's compassionate realism.