Yes, alluding to the oft-used thought about resentment--or maybe it's anger--same difference. The one I've quoted is "'Resentment' is like taking poison and waiting for the other person to die.' Grudges do no good whatsoever and they benefit no one, neither in our business lives nor our personal lives." That's in my piece suggesting that every person could benefit from Steps 4, 5, 8, 9, and 10. https://medium.com/illumination/spirituality-redefined-ff45cb53eaf2 Your daughter could certainly use Step 4, the purpose of which is to let go of one’s resentments by identifying what character defects in ourselves were triggered by the actions or omissions of the person we resent — every street has two sides.